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Breakups. Burnout.
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Because what they’re really saying is: Keep going. Keep carrying it all. We’ve come to depend on it.

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Hey, I’m Iman

I used to be a divorce lawyer, which means I’ve seen what staying too long can do — and what it takes to finally leave.
Now, through Over It Club, I coach high-functioning people who feel stuck, spiralling, or quietly planning their exit.
That might be a relationship. A job. A life that looks fine on the outside but doesn’t fit anymore.

You don’t need fixing.
You need a way through — and someone who gets it.

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